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WH is suppose to come back today and since he has been gone (to think things out)since Sunday,I feel he has been with OW.Would it be OK to ask him if he was? and if he was should I tell him we should have NC until the A is over or our marriage?
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What is the background? Honesty is always the best. Does he want to tell you? Of course you can ask.
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lostnhurt do you mean his A (background)?
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LittleLady,
Your sig says "Love him with all my heart."
It also says DDay was about a month ago and you immediately kicked him out.
Plan B is only effective after a good solid Plan A. You haven't had an opportunity to do a good solid Plan A yet. If you really love him with all your heart, don't go to a Plan B now. Plan A him first.
You could ask him if he's been with OW but what do you really expect to gain from that? If he says yes, what will you do?
If he says no, will you believe him?
I'm not trying to be snotty. I really think you should think about it.
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