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And the neighbor called the cops!
Good grief. What the he**.
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Oh my gosh, SS! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
You have a kind of long thread going on that I haven't had time to read, but I'll find it and get caught up now.
Do you think he was serious?
What did you say?
How are you feeling?
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SS:
What a terrible waste of a sushi lunch. I am so sorry. I will pray for wisdom for you and your H.
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Sorry to hear that, after all you've been through already. Could be he is foggy thinking that this will solve "his" problems. But like my WW it is only a piece of paper, problems will follow them(WS).
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SS, I just read your thread on the recovery board. It started out sounding so hopeful. I'm really sorry for the rollercoaster ride you've been on. Mine at the moment isn't half as bad and I was a basket case for 2 days.
I am sending prayers your way that the greatest good for YOU occurs. You are a great, strong lady, and deserve the best. CV
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SS
I am so sorry to hear this news. Do you think he really meant it? Or was this just another fog talk? What is with the cops being called? I will keep you in my prayers for sure.
((((((((HUGS))))))))))
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spiderslayer - Sorry to hear the rollercoaster is going back down. Something else must be going on here. Are you sure he is not still seeing OW?
Let us know what has been going on.
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SS,
I'm praying for you tonight. I don't understand quite what happened, but it sounds ugly. Hopefully it's all fog.
My rollercoaster, I thought as of yesterday, was looking like it was going up, too, but it took a big nosedive down a hill again tonight. You know how much I LOVE weekends anyway (NOT!), so this is a great start.
Lets all just pray for each other, that we weather this in the end. Stats say that most A's eventually do end, and that most WS's usually come around and are willing to try and restore the M. We can't ALL be in the small minority who don't, if we all keep trying and working and not giving up, can we??
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SS, So sorry to hear this. Can you tell us about the lunch....and the cops? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
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SS, thinking about you. What happened. I hope that it is just fog. Keep you in my prayer.
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YooHoo Spider Slayer -
I might have to send Brett over to check on you. Please let us know what is going on.
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SS, looking for you. Hope you r.o.k.
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SS, We're worried about you. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> Please post as soon as you can. (Who else will cyber-slap the s*** out of me when I need it if you're not there!????) LL
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OK, I have had some Merlot, so posting is hard.
We went to lunch. I was being a friend. He thought we should have gotten it to go. I said why? He said so we could talk.
I said we didn't always have to talk about R, and he said MC said we should.
It was bad. He wants D. He even said that early last year, he wanted me to die. or D him, so he could be with her without guilt or feeling bad.
He wanted me to die! I am a whole person! Just so he could have what he wanted.
That hurts me. So, D he will have. I'll post tomorrow when I can type!
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spiderslayer - This is just more fogtalk. My H is so deep in the fog, that I think he would like me to die. Sorry, I'm not gonna do it. I am much stronger than I was at first.
You are too new to this. Forget his fogtalk.
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Yeah, I think we are heading toward D. He is being an a**.
He can't be with me, because he'll never give up the OW as a "friend."
Puke gag hurl vomit!
He hung up on me tonight. There were LB's, DJ's, and Ao's. And lots of cursing on top! he he he.
Oh well. He needed to hear it. He hadn't heard any of my anger, because he confessed to me on D-day in the ER for a mental breakdown!
Good grief. I'll post in the morning when I am sober.
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Oh sweetie, I am the FWW - note that FWW! and I am here for you - we are all here for you.
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Fog talk. When my WH finally confessed his A, he told me he had even planned out how he could "off" me...he would ambush me on a Saturday when I went out for my morning run, or he would let all the fluid out of the brake lines.
I was really hurt by that. This was the man I built a life with, had children with, have known and loved for 13 years, who had a PLAN in mind so he could just be rid of me and get started with his own life.
Fog Talk.
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Hi SS,
I was gone for so much of this week and I have not looked at others' threads since i have been back. too busy with my own drama i suppose.
I wanted to tell you that I just said a prayer for you. I am sorry your H said such terrible things to you. take care of yourself!!
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SS - definitely fog talk. Forget the D. NO major decisions for at least six months after D-day. Get a cup of coffee, a couple of aspirin <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> , and come here and vent a bit. And what's that bit about the cops?
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