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WH Wants Me to Refinance His Car!
#1120741 03/24/04 05:31 PM
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WH calls before leaving for work.

Still has not responded to my note left Sunday night re our state of affairs.

Asks how kids did this am. And then asks, "Did you put in an application to your credit union to refinance my car?"

I said, "No, I hadn't and if I did, that $$ would be deducted from my paycheck."

He said, "It would be $$ your paying out each month anyway."

Am I missing something here? Did we just not agree to separate on Saturday? Why would I want $$ for his car coming out of my paycheck? What if we separate for good or divorce? I'm thinking he still doesn't realize that I mean it this time or something.

What do y'all think?
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hahahhahahhahahhahahhahahhahahhahahhahahahhahah

sorry, had to get that out of my system....a fogged spouse has no shame do they?
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I have found this phrase to be quite helpful:

"honey, I'm not going to help you leave me."
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I thought someone might get a kick out of that one!

I like your response -- I am stamping it to my forehead right now <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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Re: WH Wants Me to Refinance His Car!
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It just really throws me for a loop to think that he actually thinks I would even consider that right now.

I had posted on this issue a while back because he NEVER keeps up w/finances and all the sudden he was bugging me about refinancing his car for him.

You know what? It was right around the time he was planning on one of his start a business schemes w/his friend in the D.C. area. I did see on the cell phone log that he talked to this guy for 80 minutes in the middle of the night last Wednesday night. He mentioned about a week ago that this guy might move here instead and try to start up a business here. And now the ?? about refinancing his car for him again..... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

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