Chris

You are so good with the letter help. I need a way to let my WH know that I appreciate the fact that he wants to put my birdfeeder back up (it is a huge monstrosity about 200#), but I don't want it up. I would like it dragged out back to rot, because he left it out all winter and it already started to rot and I don't want it in my yard. Plus it is just a reminder of the life we used to have, and I just don't want to look out my window and think of him. So how do I nicely let him know how I feel when we are in Plan B? I never see him and we don't talk. Usually just small note about our S.

Before he moved out the second time, I knew he was leaving again, he made me a bluebird feeder at work. I asked him not to put it out in the yard, just to scrap it. It is so painful, anyway he put it up one day while I wasn't here. Now I have to look at it everyday and it is nice, but bolted right down. This stuff just depresses me to no end. Mostly because I don't plan on Plan B, to end in R. I plan on Plan B to end in D. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> Mostly because I don't want to have an expectations, then I won't get hurt again.

thanks,

NY

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Okay, okay <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

I need a way to let my WH know that I appreciate the fact that he wants to put my birdfeeder back up (it is a huge monstrosity about 200#), but I don't want it up.
Put a note on it and explain (nicely) you do not want it. Make sure the note is very easily seen and staple it down so it doesn't fall off.

Ask someone to remove the other one.

Okay, that I will do Chris. Thank you for your help and for understanding my impatience <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> .


How about:

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I no longer wish to have this birdfeeder in the yard. If you would like to help you could drag it out back to the wood pile.

Thank you,

NY