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UGH!! torturing myself!
#1122242 03/29/04 09:01 PM
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when my H and I were living apart he would send me songs in email. Things like "changes" by Ozzy and "she's a lady" by Tom Jones

I was just looking at his play list and saw that he downloaded Tom Jones "we've got tonight" at the same time he downloaded "she's a lady" I know in my heart that he sent her "we've got tonight" probably within minutes of sending me "she's a lady".

Lots of the songs on his play list seem to fit the situation, either to her or to me. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />
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Don't sweat it Probably he downloaded to here the lyric. That happened to me with a song. I downloaded all the songs from Billy Idol next thing my husband wanted me to explain to him why I had download Eyes without a face from Billy Idol and when he heard the song tears ran through his eyes. But I didn't mean to download that song.
I'm the BW. So Cheer up.

Maybe he was looking to see which one was the song the was for you!
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I've been doing the same type of things with my WH, but today I had my first MC session (alone) and she told me to try not to tie things to OW and that situation. You just drive yourself crazy and chances are it means nothing. FYI
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Hello Orchid. I don't know if this was sarcasm or humor <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

I don't want to be a pest, it's really only the original thread (my first one) that I'm hoping to get some insight from others about.
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TML,

I bumped your threads because there were others who posted and wasn't sure if you saw their response.

It is often hard to respond to someone if you don't know if they understood or were helped by one's post.

You have several posts you started and it seemed the responses were getting buried.

No sarcasm intended. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

L.

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