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WH: "You just don't know how hard this is for me". WH: "Maybe I am curious about being with other women".(Wish he would have decided that BEFORE we were married and had a family.Perhpas,when we were dating? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> WH: "She is a good and moral person.She doesn't like the homewrecker image".(An OW oldie but goodie) WH:" Maybe I was never really committed to you all these years". <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> WH:" I just cannot be the husband you need or deserve".(Ummm,so you'd rather be a lying,cheating,selfish bas****?) WH:" Homewrecker has always supported me calling the girls".(How nice of her to support you in your adultery but also in being a part time dad) <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> WH: "My love for you is unique,real and will never diminish".(Yeah,like I would want this kind of "love from WH.) WH: "If I am naive enough to think that I can just end our marriage and have nothing else change then so be it". WH: "This has been the most difficult and incredibly painful and sad time in all my life by far". (Well,if it's so great being an adulterer and giving up everything for this homewrecker,shouldn't it feel a little bit better?) WH: "I know you can't care how much I still cry" WH: "What's wrong with me?" BINGO.Million dollar question. O
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WH had the nerve to call me in the middle of the night and ask where I had been. He supposedly saw me leaving someone's apt.. He wanted to know who I was with when I was at home crying over him. What was he doing out at 10:30 at night? To this day he still accuses me of being with someone else that night.
WH: OW is nice, she is just like me.
ME: How?
WH: We are both smart asses.
WH: I do things when you make me mad. I went and got divorce papers because you called OW. I filled out divorce papers because you confronted me about the phone calls.
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WH:I keep OW on the side just in case you decide to leave me <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> .
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LOL! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Sorry, i just finished reading brownhairs post about WH thinking he wasnt the kind of person to get an std. I also heard this one recently.
WH: You just dont understand, I love you more than life itself, your the only one who excites me sexually, ow and i just talk now.
Me:When did the 2 of you last have sex?
WH: last week.
Me: speechless.
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Believer:
I was going to call you out to get this...because I know that you have been successful before in tasks like this.
Nice job....time for some laughs.
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I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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WH:I keep OW on the side just in case you decide to leave me <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> . I'm sorry...really sorry, but I am already cracking up just reading this entry by Shelly. Lord help me.
Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.
I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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all time favorite in the forsyth county court house: "I lived like a rock star and loved every minute of it"-Darth
That was part of an email sent to me during a drunken rage fest of Darth's during our separation. This was read during my first court trial...ironically held on valentine's day. Whole courtroom gasped! I was there b/c he did not pay us for several months and I had 2 eviction notices served...statements that day showed he spent over 30k in vegas over a 3 day period.
More Darth-isms:
of monkeyho: She makes me want to be better. (why she took him to a marriage help seminar at a local church less than 2 miles from my home)
of Family Values: She is such a good mom and is in fact more of a mom than you can ever be. (FV has an outta wedlock child from xbf she shacked up with...was a male mag model...wildchild in early 20's...did drugs...partygirl and golddigger who can never remember to take "the pill"...what a role model!)
me:37 BS; s:7;
xh:38; OW:26;eloped w/OW 1 wk after D: 12/29/03. OC born 3/17/04. Happy! Blessed to be the mother of a wonderful son..great profession..Life's good!
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the standard I Love you but I'm not in love with you
I've been unhappy for the last 2 yrs ... then 5
OW has nothing to do with this
I didn't leave you for another woman
I will always be sexually attracted to you until the day I die ( wow how interesting)
OW and I talk and have fun its not about the sex
so many more I can't remember them all
BS (Me)- 47 WH - 46
Married- 24 yrs
3 children 15,19,22
2 grandsons
D-Day- June17, 2005 while I was 1400 miles away
WH living with OW since July 05
WH filed divorce papers Dec. 22, 05
Divorced granted June 28, 06
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on Dday: "I didn't plan for my relationship with her to get physical."
1 day after Dday, when I ask about my safety: "You don't have to worry about STD's, we tested for HIV before we had sex."
(me thinking: and that wasn't planning???) Wow...I missed this one on the first go around.
Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.
I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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Here is my favorite WH quote (this was after a day of exposure) WH: "BS, now you have done it, OW is scared to be with me because she doesn't know what else you will do. Will you please tell her you won't do anything else to her" BS: "You want your wife to reassure your mistress??" WH: "Yes, she is hear, will you talk to her" BS: "Sure hon, but her on the phone" Babble babble in the background WH: "She is too scared to come to the phone" BS: "Ok, just tell her I will show her the same respect that she showed my children's family" WH: Click <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />
Me-41 BS (FWS) DH-41 WS (FBS) 2DD's- 10 and 12 Married 15 years Separated for 2 years after my A Reconciled for 1 year before his A D-day for his A 8/23/05 WH moved out 9/16/05 Divorce final 1/23/07 Affair ended or month or so later My Story
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This is my alltime favorite by Resilient:
Setting:
H and I are separated, he left me for OW #1. While out, he cheats on his new found soul-mate with OW #2 [ONS], and got her preggers.
Flash foward some time later and he's telling me how it all happened.
Me: So you slept with this woman and you don't even know her, and she's pregnant from you?
Him: Yes, and it's your fault she's pregnant because you wouldn't talk to me.
Me: How is THAT my fault?
Him: I needed someone to talk to because OW #1 and I were fighting. So, OW #2 seduced me and took advantage of me and the situation, and it's your fault cuz I couldn't talk to you instead.
Me: <speechless>
And there's plenty more where that came from, cuz not too long later he got OW #1 preggers too. I have such awesome power, I can get females pregnant remotely without contact, AND I'm a female. LMAO!!!
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"I didn't leave you for another man"
Wow this one sounds scaringly familiar...
Me 33; W 32; kids 0; no known A
date:1996; M:1998
sep 8/04;D filed 9/04 by W;not finalized
MC 1/05-4/05
Sept 2005 n/c by W she moved 5 hrs away and wants me to "move on". D still pending
Talk w/ Jen C 11/27-send Plan A emails
my summary
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Here is my favorite WH quote (this was after a day of exposure)
WH: "BS, now you have done it, OW is scared to be with me because she doesn't know what else you will do. Will you please tell her you won't do anything else to her"
BS: "You want your wife to reassure your mistress??" Jean, this one deserves to be in the WS Fogese HALL OF FAME!! lol That is so rich!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I have heard some great ones as of late. It actually helps me to read that other WH's have said the EXACT same words. My favorite: OW prays for you. (Gee, how nice and heartfelt--is this before or after you just had SF with my WH?) OW thinks I should go home to you. OW's BH is a rapist, and if you call him, he will hurt me or her. (I called, BTW, and they are both still alive and untouched). If you're not a guarantee, then why should I have to give her up? I am sleeping with her for the sake of the boys. (He went on to explain that if he didn't have her, he's have to kill himself or be miserable--and this way he is stronger for the boys!) I am afraid I'd be settling for you. I just don't have the strength to fight for our marriage. It's all about flight or fight personality--and I am the flight type. WH--I want to come for a trial period to see if when I am with you, I still feel for her. Me--if you were miserable for the past 3 years, then why do we have a 2 yr old, one on the way, and why did we buy our dream home in May? WH--I did those things for hope. I thought I'd be strong enough to handle it all. Those are just a few. they hurt like H+l* at first, but I have learned that it's all nonsense. Thanks for bumping this up. And Believer, i ahd NO idea of your sitch--WOW! You are a strong woman--not to mention quite the miracle worker~ <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />
BW-me, 29
XH, 29
3 sons-now 6,4,2
Divorce final--Sept. 27, 2006.
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Does anyone remember the one where the Betrayed Spouse came on here and stated that she could not do Plan B....because her Wayward Husband did not think it was "practical"...LOL. That was not the exact phrasing but it went something like that,........that one was my all time favorite....Definitely Hall of Fame worthy.
Lem
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I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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Me--if you were miserable for the past 3 years, then why do we have a 2 yr old, one on the way, and why did we buy our dream home in May?
WH-- I did those things for hope. I thought I'd be strong enough to handle it all. Well, that one above may be an award nominee. Wow.....how clueless.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> Lem
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I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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I remembered another one...when trying to help me feel better...
"At least I don't beat you." I am sorry.....apologizing again for LMAO at this. I know it is wrong....I can't help it. These Waywards, they crack me up.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" /> Lem
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Some people just don't get it, they don't get it that they don't get it.
I had the right to remain silent.......but I didn't have the ability.
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Does anyone remember the one where the Betrayed Spouse came on here and stated that she could not do Plan B....because her Wayward Husband did not think it was "practical"...LOL. That was not the exact phrasing but it went something like that,........that one was my all time favorite....Definitely Hall of Fame worthy.
Lem OMG, I remember that, because I BURST A BLOOD VESSEL over that one! And WAT vowed to never ever help a BS who wouldn't expose after that one! WAT and I spent MONTHS coaxing her into Plan B and spent tireless hours helping her with the letter. She gives him the letter and then comes back here and tells us: "he said he understood, but it just wasn't practical." END OF STORY! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/crazy.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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Cymanca: "So did you ever tell him that you loved him?"
Cymanca's WW "Never, not once!!"
Cymanca: " Then why do I have 1200 emails and IM messages in 3 months between you two that all end in I Love You"
Cymanca's WW "But I never meant it"
Divorced:
"Never shelter anyone from the realities of their decisions": Noodle
You believe easily what you hope for ernestly
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