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I am about to go through a divorce and was wondering if there were any WSs out there that regretted getting a DV after the fact. Right now I am so angry at my WW. I hope she eventually comes out of the fog and realizes what she's done. I hope she will regret it and feel BAD for tearing up our family! I actually want this DV right now so that she can fall on her face and feel what its like. I don't like feeling this way, but I hope she gets what she has gotten herself into. Her OM is a loser and she will find this out eventually. I can almost picture me laughing in her face when she realizes how much of a piece of poop the OM really is! I know I'm ranting and raving but I just needed to vent and see if other WSs felt bad after their DV...
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Hey, We can all feel the frustration you have, but I for one feel the statistics are with you...Only 10% of these "new" marriages ever work out...Go get some beer and sit back and watch the show of life and hope the saddness turns to a comedy in a couple of years
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Thanks Arewehavnfunyet? I needed a little pick me up. The only bad thing about this is my girls will have to see all this and go through it. I know from this experience that history repeats itself. My parents and WWs parents both went through the same type of thing. You would think we would have learned from this and not done the same thing, but in actuality, we learned from it and did exactly the same thing. I hope to get my Ds in counseling so they can break this cycle and have a great life of their own when they grow up...
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I'm in the military and just found out some things about custody. Unless I have 100% custody of at least one of my kids, I lose about $600 a month. Add to that about $500 in child support and I pretty well screwed! I hope she's happy about taking money away from our kids.... One day I pray she will see what she's done... Yes, I'm feeling pretty low about right now....
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Still trying to figure this one out... I just want it to be over and still maintain me and my kids life...
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