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My H does not open up he ask like nothing happened. On Sunday he strayed away, I don't think he had sex WO but I'm sure they saw each other. When he got home at 2:30 A.m. When I opened the door he ask me for a Kiss. I put cheek and said I'll be in bed when ever you feel you can be honest you can wake me up came to the room said he was working overtime. I said be honest, is worst when 3 days from today I'm reassured of your lie. He said no! I was working! Well on the Morning I asked him to be opened about everything that he was tearing me apart with pretending (nothing ever happened) he listen to me. Had nothing to say. On tuesday I found out from a friend of his who call to ask why he had left early from work if me and kids were OK. I didn't tell H about that. He slept M T on my bed yesterday At 11:00 P.M. He said I have to go buy a beer came back quickly with his beer and slept on the sofa! What is this stage?
Since Middle of January He hasn't had a conversation WO. Recently I found out She works in the same building he does. What do I do?
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Have you read about ENs and are you in Plan A? If not, it sounds like that's where you need to be. Instead of turning your cheek, gushing over him...
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