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Very simple! Will making love or having sex, however you wish to put it, help in the recovery/withdrawal of the FWH?
After seeing the OW yesterday (business purposes only) H is now 5 steps backwards instead of 10 steps forwards. He is having urges to call her. He wants to "do it" today so he can leave his temptations behind him. Last week, simply put he said he wasn't "ready" to make love with me yet...Now he cant wait to get home...I am very confused. I told him I dont want to feel used. BUT...
So how should I take this? I do want to get our intimacy back and I know it will be hard the first few/sevreal times, but do you think this is the right thing for us. Will this ultimately help HIM get over his temptations to do it with OW instead of me. I mean, we have tos tart somehere, right?
SH suggested to "just do it"...His exact words.LOL If I want to, then just do it. What is your take on it?
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Mom, JUST DO IT!!! You don't have to analyize it to death....it was tough for me especially the first time - but I also felt I was reclaiming something that was MINE!!
<small>[ April 01, 2004, 10:42 AM: Message edited by: CSue ]</small>
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<img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> LOL
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DO IT! Be all over your man when he gets home!
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another vote for log off and jump him!
Reclaim him as YOURS and your alone!
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I agree. Just DO IT! Wear him out. ;-) Kati </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by stillsosad: <strong> DO IT! Be all over your man when he gets home! sss </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">
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<img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> OK, I'm ready! I just took a shower and shaved my legs <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> I'm READY! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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Don't start without him. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
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Don't start without him. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> Goll DANG it, now I have diet ginger ale all over my screen. Believer, I'll get you for this one. Hee hee hee hee hee. Mom, have a good time playing "doctor"!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> <small>[ April 01, 2004, 11:43 AM: Message edited by: Just J ]</small>
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Just J: <strong> Don't start without him. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> Goll DANG it, now I have diet ginger ale all over my screen. Believer, I'll get you for this one. Hee hee hee hee hee. Mom, have a good time playing "doctor"!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You've got diet giner ale and I've got diet coke on mine! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Well, he is going to be late! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> dad gummit, I did all this work only to have to wait until tonight! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> Well, I guess I will be taking shower number 3 later tongith! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
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Wait.... he decided to WORK instead of come home and make whoopie? *sigh* I gotta talk to him about his priorities again.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Just J: <strong> Wait.... he decided to WORK instead of come home and make whoopie? *sigh* I gotta talk to him about his priorities again. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">yea, tell me about it <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
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