This one is posted as Can you help me get H to opened up But I really need to know the stage
H just call me from work and told me he is depresed I ask why he said I have alot on my mind.

We Have Lots of Financial problems. For a while I thought the OW was Intelectual and worked W/Him. I'm a 1st grade teacher although When I had the Kids I stop working they are 13 months apart. Well that something he would say now and then. But no the OW doesn't even know english! She works in a restaurant at the airport (were he works)doesn't have even a driversLicense and is 10 yrs older than me.
My H does not open up he ask like nothing happened. On Sunday he strayed away, I don't think he had sex WO but I'm sure they saw each other. When he got home at 2:30 A.m. When I opened the door he ask me for a Kiss. I put cheek and said I'll be in bed when ever you feel you can be honest you can wake me up came to the room said he was working overtime. I said be honest, is worst when 3 days from today I'm reassured of your lie. He said no! I was working! Well on the Morning I asked him to be opened about everything that he was tearing me apart with pretending (nothing ever happened) he listen to me. Had nothing to say. On tuesday I found out from a friend of his who call to ask why he had left early from work if me and kids were OK. I didn't tell H about that. He slept M T on my bed yesterday At 11:00 P.M. He said I have to go buy a beer came back quickly with his beer and slept on the sofa! What is this stage?

Since Middle of January He hasn't had a conversation WO. Recently I found out She works in the same building he does. What do I do?

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M 7yrs
2 boys

Stay in Plan A and keep reading and posting here. Unfortunately, most of them keep lying for awhile. It is part of being a WS. I think they have things to hide.