Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum

This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at mbrestored@gmail.com
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Joined: Jan 2004
Posts: 122
A
Member
Member
A Offline
Joined: Jan 2004
Posts: 122
My WH is "working on our marriage" (his words)

What surprises me is the other BB I visited he was always the DH - then I found out.

Now he has become the WH and I feel it when I type those letters.

So those of you further along than me, when do they become the "F"WH?

Joined: Mar 2004
Posts: 234
T
Member
Member
T Offline
Joined: Mar 2004
Posts: 234
what is the "DH"?

Joined: Jan 2004
Posts: 122
A
Member
Member
A Offline
Joined: Jan 2004
Posts: 122
dear or darling husband = DH

Joined: Mar 2004
Posts: 1,842
M
Member
Member
M Offline
Joined: Mar 2004
Posts: 1,842
I know what you mean anotherone! The other board I am a member of is always DH...it killed me when I first had to type in WH.

They become the FWH when he has ended the affair and NC has been established.

Depending on what mood I am in at the moment I still call mine WH, but for the most part he is now H...occassionally I will put it as FWH..but I feel we still have a looooong way to go in our recovery before he can get the "official" title of FWH.


Moderated by  Fordude 

Link Copied to Clipboard
Forum Search
Who's Online Now
0 members (), 555 guests, and 21 robots.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Newest Members
Countfunkula, mollye14, Pansu, sakyt, George Mixflicke
72,372 Registered Users
Latest Posts
After 26 yrs ,here we go again
by Nochanges - 10/29/26 08:18 PM
Just checking in
by markos - 10/27/26 05:09 PM
Why would the WW partner want Counseling?
by Samuel Connely - 10/27/26 02:17 PM
Should I commit to him longterm?
by Samuel Connely - 10/27/26 02:12 PM
Following Ex-Wifes Nursing Schedule?
by emelia lucass - 10/23/26 05:11 AM
Infertility
by Samuel Connely - 10/22/26 06:50 AM
Separated/Dating
by abrrba - 10/19/26 12:23 PM
Forum Statistics
Forums67
Topics133,662
Posts2,323,632
Members72,372
Most Online9,682
May 13th, 2026
deneme bonusu
Building Marriages That Last A Lifetime
Copyright © 2025, Marriage Builders, Inc. All Rights Reserved.
Site Navigation
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 8.0.0