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NY, I was confused by your comment to me. Are you telling me your H talked to an attorney? Or are you telling me that my H talked to an attorney? I'd appreciate you clearing that up for me. CV
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My WH consulted with an attorney. I don't know your H. Sorry, don't know how I confused you. didn't mean to.
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NY, you scared the crap out of me. I thought you were warning me about something my H posted here. I was ready to dump him immediately.
Anyway, I'm sorry about your situation. How did you find out? Did your H actually tell you? This whole process sucks big ones, doesn't it? And we, the BSs, are left with so much SH%% no matter what the outcome.
Hang in there NY. You know I'm always wishing for the best. Sorry for my extreme paranoia. CV
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CV You are so funny! Didn't mean to scare the crap out of ya! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Don't dump him! Keep him! My WH wrote a check to an attorney and it was on our internet banking. He doesn't know I know. I called my attorney and he going to call his attorney and find out what he went for. Hopefully he will tell him. I think it was just a consultation. It said attorney consultation at the bottom of the check. He paid 112.50 for him though. My attorney said that's chump change. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> He said he is an idiot (lawyer) don't even worry about him, he is small time. My attorney is a friend of the family. He is the one that fought for me and my sister when we were young. Well you keep on keeping on girl. I am here for you! NY <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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NY...I laugh about your "She can have him comment."
I totally know what you mean.
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Well she can! I can't control him, and he isn't the H I married. So she can have him! Right? Say what you mean, mean what you feel. We are all in the same line these days. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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Yes. He can rot in hell for all I care.
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You got it! We are young, we are strong like steel!
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I'm not as young as you two, so I'm not sure what the likelihood of meeting a man would be if H and I don't make it. However, I could be deluding myself here, I still feel like I'm one fine woman. I don't know what the heck that's about. Maybe it's the affair, depression weight loss diet that has boosted my confidence. Anyway, I'd rather be alone than 2nd best forever. We'll see what kind of man my H turns out to be. He's going to have to turn into a man because I WILL NOT be married to a boy. Love you ladies, even though we've never met. Hang in there! We will survive! CV
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I 'm feeling alot of GLORIA GANER here LADIES! " I WILL SURVIVE " PUT it on and dance around that house ! CHER also very strong words in those songs , belive it or not they help you laugh at this and give you strenght . BE well , <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
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SONG by CHER ---- STRONG ENOUGH
WOnderful song I listened 50 times a day !
OH then he decied to come home was seeing alittle to much change going on in me . LOL
THINGS always work out weather it with then or woth out them .
Rember that you all are WORTHY .
I have a wonderful freind on here and in every post she reminded me all the time that I AM WORTHY !
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You ladies are the best. WH is here right now putting up railings. I feel kind of bad, because......I feel nothing for him at all. I am looking at him and nothing happens. No butterflies, nothing. I wonder if I have emotionally detached myself, or if I really don't feel anything for him anymore. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> NY
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I totally now what you mean. After the massive, hurtful, abusive conversation I had with WH this week, I feel totally dead toward him. Nothing. Zilch. I try to think of the good times, and see MYSELF rewriting history a little bit. Thinking of all the unacceptable things that should have been DEAL BREAKERS for me long before this unacceptable relationship.
I have nothing left to give him anymore. And even if I did, I don't want to give it to him.
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