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I'm not going to give her that anymore she'll have to start making up lies for her to believe so that she can rationalize the A and when that time comes it won't be long till she will have to look at herself and put the blaim where it belongs. I'm not bitter I'm just lonely and hurt that I don't know who this person is in my W body. That's all. Some country singer said it and I don't know who "But this house isn't a home without her."
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I'm not bitter I'm just lonely and hurt that I don't know who this person is in my W body. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I think you just voiced the opinion of every BS on this board.
Hang in there - we have to keep it together.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I'm not bitter I'm just lonely and hurt that I don't know who this person is in my W body. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Change the W to an H and you have summed up the feelings in my heart.
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This probably won't help you all at all but can I let you know reading these posts makes me SO glad I finished my A and my marriage is on its way to being better than it was it before. I feel so much pain for you all - I just wish your WS's would WAKE UP.
The reality of what it would be like if I had left my H for OM (which I was going to do)just makes me so relieved I "saw the light" before it was too late.
It probably makes you feel worse to read this but I hope it makes you feel better and more purposeful knowing that there is hope (and I was a hopeless case).
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> It probably makes you feel worse to read this but I hope it makes you feel better and more purposeful knowing that there is hope (and I was a hopeless case). </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Actually, that is exactly what I LIKE to read, Jenny. Thank you for your candor.
Out of curiosity, what brought you back?
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