Nothing going on, just wanted to see who's around.<P>------------------<BR>Just call me - Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<P>

Me! I'm around! Just hanging around, learning! You? whats going on with you Deb? I am not a regular poster but I have read your postings many times... Much to learn and put into practice! <BR>me

2Souls2,<BR> Please don't try to learn from my post's I am one messed up woman right now,lol. I am glad you posted tonight. It's not quite my bed time yet, and I'm not in the mood to work on my doorstop dolls tonight. I can tell you this site has helped me keep at least a thread of sanity.<P>------------------<BR>Just call me - Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<P>

Hi Debs<BR>I am here too, broad daylight here in S.A. 8.45 am and working hard.<P>Jenny<P>------------------<BR>Where have all the cowboys gone ?<BR>Paula Cole<P><BR>

I'm here...for the next 20 mins or so anyway....2.45 here down under....pick the kids up from school soon....

Gee Jen,<BR> It's 1:45 or so here deep in the heart of Texas. How are things going, I am glad to see you posted, are you ok ?<P>------------------<BR>Just call me - Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<P>

well one thing about it, a night owl like me can almost always find someone to talk to with all these diffrent time zones.<P>------------------<BR>Just call me - Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<P>

Hi Deb<BR>Thanks for asking, I am fine now thank you, feeling a little neglected H is out alot these days again or working on cars but otherwise I am fine, I have not posted much lately, large work load at work recently, which does not seem to want to die no matter how hard I try!! How are things with you Deb?<BR>P.S Do you know much about e mail at yahoo? check out my post please perhaps you can help <BR>Jenny<P>------------------<BR>Where have all the cowboys gone ?<BR>Paula Cole<P><BR>

Hey Deb, I've only been here for a month or so, and it takes a while to get everyones story clear....but I've been wondering about you...did you or your H start posting first?? How does it work with you both here? I've often wondered if it is better or worse..I mean, you can say things you might not say to his face, but doesn't it also limit the freedom of expression you have here? Wondering, as would like to email my H something from here, but it would then reveal my username and this site, and not sure that would be a good idea, as he is not committed to marriage building as I am, and I think I might feel like my freedom of expression was compromised thinking he might just look around now and then. Are there any others where both partners are here?? just wondering...

Jen, <BR> I don't know much about email period, I did look at your post tho, is it possible you are typing in the wrong pass word or something ?<BR> So have you started your escape plan yet ?<BR>I am fine, getting tired tho, so I will say goodnigt and go turn into a pumpkin for a couple of hours anyway.<P>------------------<BR>Just call me - Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<P>

Hi Deb: Did you have a chance to read my email .. just wondered since i hadn't heard back from you yet? Also wanted to let you know some positive things are coming about in my life this past week. Some of those things have allowed me to let go of my past negativeness especially with the OM cause it was getting too stressful that's for sure. So you could say some new leafs are turning over for me. Wish you the best that positive things come your way too.... : )<P>------------------<BR>Alliy

sosad,<BR> hmmm, intresting points, I started posting here first, and after a while I started emailing h Other people's posts, ones I hadn't responded to at first, then later some I had posted on. Then I started telling him how wonderful everyone here was, and laughing at some of our "party threads" out loud when he was home. After awhile he started lurking here then when ow & her h showed up at his job and wanted to bury the hatchett and be friends, and he saw my posts about that and saw how messed up I was over it, he and I wrote them both a no more contact letter and we posted it here. Once he found out noone was going to crucify him for being a repeat cheater he was more comfortable posting. However when he first started lurking here we made an agreement, this is my safe place, a place where I can say ANYTHING and he can't get mad at me, of course the same applies to him posting here too. There is another board, not as good as this one at Key Bridge (go to yahoo and search for it) but it is there that one might be best for him if you think he will be offended with your post's.<P>------------------<BR>Just call me - Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<P>

Alliy,<BR> Haven't seen any email, when did you send it ? I am so glad things are going well for you, how is Mickey doing ?<BR>try the email again <BR>notagaintx@yahoo.com<P>------------------<BR>Just call me - Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<P>

Hi Deb<P>Yes I have started my escape plan just about finnished with it I really hope it won't be used though some how i don't think that it will but you never know rather safe than sorry hey Deb!<BR>No the pass word it right that does not seem to be my problem the computor searches for the site and can't seem to find it then times out (not that I even know what that all means!!)<P>Jenny<P>------------------<BR>Where have all the cowboys gone ?<BR>Paula Cole<P><BR>

Hi Deb,<P>South East Asia comes a bit late here. Just finished a video conference meeting with our colleagues in KL. Isn't technology amazing?<P>How are you doing, by the way? I am doing fine here, been very busy lately and didn't have much time to lurk around anymore...I'll get back to you later...<P>Love,<BR>Saskia

Debs .. i believe i did send it to that email i'll check my addy book again and let ya know if i have the right addy or not. Mickey is doing good too .. he's been busy alot lately just as i have in the evenings. But we do our best to spend as much time as possible together talking on here.<P>Take care .. talk to you laters.<P>------------------<BR>Alliy

hey, am I the only one awake her tonight.<BR>Not much going on, just kind of trying to find a way to heal old wounds, (if you're intrested see the post "signs from above)<P>------------------<BR>Just call me - Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<P>

Hi Debs,<P>What else would a lonely (single) guy be doing on a Friday night? <P>As I recall, Mike posted here a few times. What’s up? (sorry , I forget exactly what’s happening with you now). I do recall when you first posted about him wanting to bring ow home. Talk about being cold!<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html</A> <BR>

Hey there, I'm here too..... What's up you guys?? My 'puter is acting up tonight. <BR>B

Hi Deb, I'm around too. Since I started working this is the only time I have a chance of coming here ( when I'm not falling asleep ) .<BR>Not much chance of reading new posts.<BR>What's up? Why are you feeling messed up?<BR>Big hug<BR>Kat<P>------------------<BR>Each and everyone of us is deserving of a kind word, a gentle thought, and the gift of understanding.