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any BS propostion (sp) WS .....
#1129327 04/20/04 09:41 PM
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and if so did they accept? did you feel dirty afterwards? I haven't but I am really thinking about it. I feel like my body craves my H.

SORRY IF THIS IS TOO PERSONAL...
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How do you think he feels about it?

My position (scuze the pun) is that sex is a medium for intimacy and intimacy can go a long way towards healing and rekindling relationships.

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I did while in Plan A. After all, he was MY husband, not hers. Sex is one of the 10 Emotional Needs. In Plan A, you try to meet the ENs you can.

However, remember there may be consequences, such as STDs, as unpleasant as that is to realize.

If you think you would feel dirty afterwards, it is probably not a good idea to try.

If indeed you do feel dirty afterwards, then realize that sex with H is not a good choice for you and try other ENs.

<small>[ April 20, 2004, 11:08 PM: Message edited by: Lor (Lor) ]</small>
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I sure did, H accepted, no I didn't feel dirty afterwards.

We both needed the love and affection and for us it was very natural.

He!! if your body craves your husband, go for it. He is a lucky man that you feel as you do.
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Yes, I did. He is getting plenty and I am getting none, and I thought it would be helpful if we could.

But he won't even kiss me, much less SF. He is so deep in the fog, he says he hasn't loved me for a long time and he is not even interested.
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I have not propositioned (sp) my husband but I am also thinking about it. Not sure if I should!! We have had SF since it happened and it is fine (did not feel dirty at all) but he says he is not interested in it all that much right now. He has started each time since DDay. I am seriously thinking about it because he has always wanted me to iniciate (sp) it more. I am deathly afraid of rejection though:)

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