Hey people,
Yesterday WW spoke to OM for the "last time". She told him not to contact her anymore. She told me this when I came home from work. I told her I was glad she did this. She was sad and told me it was so hard for her to break it off and she felt bad because now she broke OM's heart. I thought (but did not speak...): "and what about MY heart for God's sake?????!!!! I'm your HUSBAND!!!!Don't you think about how I must feel?? I'm DYING here and you are sad about breaking this pr*ck's heart???", but I held my calm and tried to explain that she did not break his heart. He did it to himself. He should have known this could happen when getting involved with a married woman. And that she should not feel sorry, because it was not her concern anymore. All this time I held her in my arms and spoke in a soft, calm voice.
Do you think I handled this ok?
Do you think the NC letter should still be sent? I do, because I really don't know what and how she told him on the phone. I think I'll still suggest sending the letter, but not without me reading it first, right?
Today I asked her to de-activate her hotmail-account. I asked, I didn't insist. First she refused a bit, because she needs MSN/IM for her work. Just an hour ago, she changed the hotmail-adress and even gave me the password for the new account. She shut down the old account.
Boy, I hope these are positive signs. I don't want to get too "happy", if disappointments occur in the next days/weeks, they will be much harder to deal with if I expect too much.
Don't lose hope everyone!
Happiness is a choice
I'll pray for you all.
