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Broken
For how long have you been on plan A?
Does the OM's W knows about the A?
I think it may be too soon for plan B. Also have you found her needs?
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Brokenhubby if your W was leaving to go live with the OM I'd do Plan B, but since your W is going to go live with her cousin I'd stick to Plan A since your doing such a good job in it. I'd like to say what a nice job you did this morning when talking to your W.
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Thanks folks...
Matilde,
D-Day was 2/20 and I have been plan A-ing my butt off ever since. The OM's W knows and we have talked occasionally. Ir is the 10th time he has been caught in there 23 year marriage. Very sad, I gave her a copy of SAA to help her at her house.
Tinman,
Thanks for the kind words. I wasn't sure if I went over the top or not. I truly meant what I said and I have plan A'ed so well it's natural for me now, hell I catch myself plan A'ing people at work! I think it is more of a new way of dealing with people and life in general now rather than a tool to win my wife back.
I plan A my kids as well and we have a better relationship now than we ever had even though we already had a very good one.
Thanks again
BH
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