I had inititated nc 10 going on 11 mos. ago, and stuck to my guns. However, I got an email from XMM about two weeks ago. He used a new email address... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

I have not answered the email nor do I intend to. After a minor set back because of it, I finally found the strength and courage to put the block on the new email address....

Whats up with this??? What if he calls or finds another means to contact me? I have to admit it was very tempting to go back there.....I did tell my H, he wasn't a happy camper. We both decided not answering is the best option that he'll go away. I'm not too sure...

Any WS or anyone else had this happen? What did you do? What were your thoughts and reaction? Any words of wisdom would be much appreciated??? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

<small>[ April 24, 2004, 10:21 AM: Message edited by: MissJ ]</small>

Hi Miss J,

Does XMM mean he is not married anymore or he is your XOM? If he is still married, maybe you can simply forward the email to his W without replying to him? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

I'm sorry that you had to be exposed to this, being a FWW I understand how it can throw you for a loop, and make you curious, but nothing good can come from you communicating with him now.

It just goes to show what a lack of respect he has for you and your H and complete lack of concern for your happiness and peace of mind. Only a selfish narcissistic jerk would want to put you and your H through that kind of torture again. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

mrsx

I can imagine the temptation but stick to your guns! No good can come from this.

I haven't been in your situation but then again my H scared the OM big time so I think he's to afraid to come around again! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Good for you on advising your H.

He should not be overly unhappy. He cannot control what OM does, but should appreciate that you brought it to his attention. I like the idea of forwarding it to his wife, if that is applicable or possible. Not only would that send a message to him, but also enable his wife to deal with it.

What if your husband responded to it, on your behalf? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> That might do your H a lot of good.


dewt

<small>[ April 24, 2004, 10:36 AM: Message edited by: dewt ]</small>