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#1130717 04/26/04 08:48 AM
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HI CV! I was wondering if you can pop over to Faithfullogan and give her some advice. She is having a hard time understanding all of this and the withdrawal process! From what I gather, the OW lives 5 houses down and her WH has not had any contact. Although WH is having hard time reconnecting with W now. Doesn't know if he will ever get those feelings back. You know, the same crap you and I are going thru. I've tried to explain it to her, the time, and patience, but I am not doing a very good job! Can you see if you can calm her nerves! Thanks...I hope you are doing well! I've been thinking about you!

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Mom, thanks for suggesting I help Faithfull. I don't know if I did or not, but sometimes I get too much into my own pain. It's good to try and help someone out that is still beginning this sucky journey. Hope you are well! CV

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Hi CV...thanks, she is such a mess and I just remember those horrible first days of not understanding anything. You and I are in such similar situations with the fog, withdrawal, etc...

We are doing better today. Had a rough start of the weekend, but it got better. OW called H to give him her new Cell number! Wasn't that nice of her! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> Wasn't sure what to do, but have decided NOT to do anything. Just let her play her own game. I finally realized this mroning that OW is NOTHING compared to me. I am not threatened by her anymore and I can see my H emerging, finally! We went over our EN quesionnaire this weekend and it is helping a lot. Have ya'll gotten that far yet with SH? Gotta run now. Take care of yourself!


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