The other day we had sat down and wrote out our top ten needs and agreed to work on them for eachother and for ourselves.

Last night I went home in an ok mood and tried to talk to her about growing and how I could better meet her needs. She told me that she doesn't even want me to try b/c she is so far gone. She wants the marriage to end.

We have had problems for a long time now. Much of which was me no being open to her b/c of a fear of rejection or failure. She found peace and happiness in another man. I forgave her and asked for her forgivness. She said she forgave me, so when is she moving further away. So, when your spouse cheats, how do you hold on? How do you keep the love in the right place?