Sharon,
I finally read your news on the thread here from several weeks ago. Congratulations on your upcoming marriage, and on becoming a grandma soon. I know you've been dating your fiancee for quite some time now, and I'm SO GLAD it's going so well. You deserve much happiness!

Thanks for all your help.

Take care,

H_P

I think there are more of us besides H_P that remember you and wish you well - and I wonder if you hold a current recommend, and just how permanent you intend to make this marriage.

I really hope you are doing well in ALL areas of your life. I wonder if you got that job you were wanting, and how the kids are.

Anyway, bump, and hope you come by and see this.

You really don't have to tell all these things if you don't want to, but wanted you to know that people remember you and care about you.

SS

'nother bump

Hi H_P,

Thanks for the good wishes. It is good to hear from you. I don't come on too often, just to check on some old friends, but there are so many new it's hard to keep track. I hope things are going well for you. Our stories are testament to the fact that MB priciples work no matter what the outcome. You saved your marriage, through hard work, faith and love. I did not save my marriage, but I have no regrets for following MB, I am able to live happily now with no looking back. I believe that part of that strength came from understanding Plan A, and using it. I am a better person for what I went through and now I have a beautiful man to share my life with. Just as an update, yes this is the man, we have been together since Jan 03. I have been head-over-heels almost since day 1. My Ex married OW in Jan. 04, they live in another state. The kids like her and that kind of hurts, but Que Sera Sera. I have found out many things about Ex since he left (most BAD, some VERY BAD) and all I can say is I hope for OW's sake he has changed. I think one of my proudest moments is when Ex was visiting to announce his engagement and I hugged OW and wished her the best. I felt truly free. DD is due in August, a little boy, 22 yr. old D is getting married in Dec. I am getting married on July 26. H_P, I am so happy for you and me. We did it girl. I know you are happy and I am too, more so than I have been in years. Good luck and best wishes to you and yours.

Sharon

Hi Sharon,
I missed seeing this thread until now.

I'm glad for you and wish you the best. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Thanks SS and Lor,

It is good to hear from you both. SS I did not see your post at first. No I don't have a recommend. But for no new reasons, same reasons as before my D, too long to go into here. I appreciate your care and concern. Anyway just came by to check. Thanks again. Lor, I haven't heard from you for awhile. Thanks for all the help you have given me. I consider my story a success story and you were part of it. Thanks.

Sharon

Sharon,
I consider you a success as well. I remember that as you posted you gained in strength and purpose and I believe you did everything you could. If I helped, you are more than welcome.

My H is deployed to Afghanistan for at least a year. He's been in country, but gone for over a month, but to AFG now, which at least starts that year clock, because it is "boots on the ground" time, not from the point of activation.

Lor,

Thanks. That is so hard for your H to be gone and so far away. I so respect the sacrifice that our soldiers and their families make, it is such a difficult time, you are in my prayers. Best wishes to you and yours.

Sometimes I go back and read my posts, and they sound kind of harsh, and not kind and caring as I intended.

I just wanted to know because I care, not because it's my job to check up on you or anything. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

I wish you all the happiness in the world, and all the happiness out of the world also.

I hope you reach all your goals.

SS

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SS,

No problem. I appreciate your care and concern. Thanks for all your help. Hope all is well with you and yours.

Thanks again,

Sharon