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Needing a positive
#1131597 04/29/04 10:19 AM
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My husband moved out last night and has taken off his wedding ring. He is staying with his sister and he has called a lawyer all though he says he is going to just file papers on his own. Is there any hope for Marriage Builders at this point?? Any sucess stories on couples who have went through this and still made it out in the end?? I am feeling like I should just give it up at this point if he is so insistant upon giving it up. Problem is I still love him and believe we could have a good marriage.

Is this an extreme part of fog?? He did contact OW on Tuesday and she told him to never contact him again. He is hurt by OW but HELLO I am hurting too.
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There is hope, indeed!

I just posted a thread today on my story. Please read it. http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=37;t=028146

It's all part of the fog. Give it time and patience, and follow the principles here.

My husband and I remarried in January. We lived apart for almost 3 1/2 years, and HE filed for divorce, not me. I was the one who had the affair.

It can work out! Don't give up.

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Thanks hopeful!! I could use all the hope and sucess stories that I have. He told me that we would meet before things were final to see if we still wanted out at that time. I pray that he will change his mind. He seems like a stranger to me.

After contact on Tuesday with OW I hope he is just still into that and that is why he can't see his love for me.

Feeling hopeless but going to keep trying Plan A.
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I would love to hear anyone's positive stories after WS moves out and is filing for divorce.

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