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Is there any hope that he will come back? I sent a plan B letter to him. It has been a few days since he moved in with friend. I know it has fog all over it.
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I am sorry for doing this to us and our soon to be born son. I can't just sit there and pretend. I am way to comfortable with you and the situation. I need to get out of that zone to see if I really miss you and love you. Right now, I am just lying to myself and you.
That is not good for us. I know that you will have the support you need. I want to remain optimistic that this time will show me the right path. I love our son and I don't want to be a dead beat dar or husband. I want to miss you and crave what we had the last 10 years.
Right now everything is dark. I want to come back knowing that my life is destined to be with you. I want to give you the best not this half assed effort. Sorry I couldn't pull the switch with the OW and turn it off. I don't understand why I pulled away. It doesn't make sense. Hopefully you will be there for me when that day comes... Love, P
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durham need a foghorn to read that letter yikes. If you read my thread "Plan B'ers have a question" you can see I received an email from my W with about the same fogese in it. Stay in Plan B don't respond, you've stated what needs to happen to recover your M in your letter stick to that, we will support you hang in there take care of yourself and the baby ok. Prayers to you.
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