Alright I am feeling very out there and maybe crazy myself. I am holding on to hope for my marriage but am I just doing it to make myself feel better?? My husband moved out last week and keeps telling me we are done. I pushed him to hard and asked to many questions about his when/where/why etc. He can't take it anymore. He says that he loves me but is not in love with me and that there is no hope for this marriage. He called OW on Tuesday and told her he was getting a divorce because he thought she would like to know. She told him never to contact her again. He called lawyers on Monday and then said he was going to file himself but he still has not acted upon it. He again told me this morning that WE are done. There is nothing left. He claims that I can't be trusted because I snuck around to find out what he was doing (and of course he was lying about stuff). He does not seem to take any responsibility for what is going on. He had an affair, like so.

Anyway can this still be fog?? It has been 8 weeks since first DDay but then he talked to her Tuesday. Is it a good sign that he has not followed through (even though everytime I talk to him he says he is going to file)?? His friend told me he thought WH was just confused and did not know what he wanted and this was the most unhappy he has ever seen my WH.

<small>[ May 02, 2004, 09:11 AM: Message edited by: faithfullogan ]</small>