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Hey Z,
Did you see my posts to you on the thread titled, "ISGirl, I have a ?"
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Z,
How's it going? You OK? Just a bump for you!
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Thanks isgirl,
Finding an intermediary here is out of the question. The culture here is look the other way and dont get involve. If i ask my mom she will say why dont i talk to him because she doesnt understand all this plan a and b.
Using smym is also out because WH does not even have his own email add!!!
I will keep to dark the best i can by just text messaging him when needed. So far text messaging is not too bad coz you cannot type much on the Handphone.
I feel everything is completely hopeless right now.
I also feel like packing up and move away to another state but it would not be fair to my daughter who loves her father very much. They dot on each other.
I will stay dark for now.
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zizzy - Don't give up. Your WH will be back. Stay dark.
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I hope so believer.
On Saturday when i force him for an answer...he said he choose OW and will see the lawyer on wednesday (which is today). On sunday when i let my guard down a bit...he asked me out for breakfast, then dinner and later for drinks. I said no to all.
I wonder why he said he is willing to leave me oneday then a day later he goes all out asking me out???
I still dont think he will divorce me. He will sit on it. If he is still the man i have know for 18 years then he will definately sit on it. Unless OW has really changed him that much and has major influance on him then i guess he will head for the lawyer eventually.
For now i am still in darkness...it was a bit of a struggle getting back on the wagon this round.
I fell hard last week...too hard. Hopefully tomorrow will be better
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