I feel the emotional distance between my wife and I is building. I confronted her about affair about a month and a half ago. She said she ended it but wasn't sure if she ever loved me. A week after Dday I told her mother and sister about affair. My wife talked to them and next day said to me it wasn't as bad as I thought and there was a story behind it but she didn't want to get into it then-she was on her way to work. I said not that bad imagine it from my side. She still hasn't opened up to me. I haven't really pushed her about it. Although about 2 weeks ago I did tell her I thought we should talk about what was going wrong in our relationship so we could stop dwelling on bad feelings and emotions of our past so we could move on and try to build a better relationship that could make us both happy. She said she didn't know when she would have the time. We still haven't talked. I feel it is very hard for me to not know what is going on. At times she seems like she may want to work on things and other times she doesn't. Last week she wore her wedding ring everyday. She took it off Thursday night before bed(as every night) and hasn't worn it again since. This really bothers me. I really need her to talk to me but don't know how. Any suggestions.

I'm back again. Maybe I should ask my wife to tell me the story of her affair she mentioned but I think I'm just afraid it will come out she just wants to end things with me. When I tried to talk to her before she said maybe it was good she hadn't left yet. But then she said but where would she go. I just need to talk.