I have been reading posts and doing some posting myself....I have been trying my best to read all that I can about Plan A and Plan B....I read the book, SAA, as well as HnHn....I rey my best not to love bust.....but.....SOMETIMES......
My H told me this weekend that he does not feel loving toward me because I make HIM feel lower than dirt...He has lied repeatedly, got us in a grave financial situation, and exhibited more than bizarre behavior. He has not admitted to any type of an affair, or inappropriate behavior, is not willing to look for another job to help us with the financial problems, and offers no explanations for the things that have happened. He says that because he tells me that he is not lying now...(but some weird things are still happening).....that I should just believe him, and he is tired of me making him feel that I don;'t believe a word that he says. !!!!!!
He says that I should just be able to drop it all, instead of trying to get him to go to counseling etc. to deal with our problems.
I told him that I did not think we could get past all of this without finding out why it has been happening in the first place?????
Am I wrong to want know what the heck has been going on for the past year???? I told him that I did not feel I was dredging up the past, when it is all still happening. He tries to say that he has not lied for the past couple of weeks....so that should tell me he is telling me the truth now. I do not agree.....
ANYWAY....