Yesterday, my H had the mail forwarded, today I received my new car insurance, he took his name off and also took his name off as the second driver.

I called and left a message that I didn't mind him changing the policy, even though it is going to cost us more, but I did mind him taking his name off as the second driver.

I also wondered if he cancelled the life insurance policies. I believe if anything happens to one of us, we are still finiancially responsibile for each other in eyes of the law.

We also have our own business. It is client based, so its not like its a physical work place. We did the work jointly, but since he didn't have a job I let him keep all the profits.

He ask me to sign off on the business, but I refused. I said it to early in this to make a big decision. I'll still do some of the work (which I love) and you can keep all the profits. I don't want the money, I just want him back.

I know the OW would love to have our business, she was a client of mine from another firm, and I tried to help her and her husband jump start their business, but she was off trying to get my husband instead of trying to make a go of it. Forcing her soon to ex to file bankruptcy.

I know how greedy she is, she even tried to malipulate my in-laws, but they are on to her. MIL saids she will never be part of our family. My in-laws have the money, not us. As I mention in an earlier post, that I work two jobs (excluding our business), since my WH lost his job.

She will soon find out my WH puts everything on credit cards. He is up in his ears in debt. I know she is behind everything he does. I'm just waiting for the fog to lift and for he find out how controlling and malipulating she really is.

My concern now is financial and should take the advice I got earlier, and do seek an attorney. Just to protect myself.