Me and DD were driving down the road and right there in front of me OW was standing with her son. She was walking into a hair salon, I pulled into the parking lot. She looked at me and ran in the door. Then she kept looking out the window at us. Gees, I only wanted to talk! DD and I laughed all the way home. Must have been my hair or something <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> I was having a bad hair day <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> .

HINY

sumpthin must have been bothering that gal!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Ya think <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> ! Like maybe her conscience <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> . Nah! She doesn't have one does she now!

HINY

COWard... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

(I just read Christy's OW nicknames thread)

Ruffled you nailed it right on the head! Or did he? Hmmmm <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> . After seeing her I am at a loss for words big time. Coward is a beginning though.

HINY

NY, when I confronted OW on her last day of working for H the word that comes to mind is PATHETIC. She looked like a zombie, could not make eye contact, and 2 times in the smallest little voice said "I'm Sorry!" Yeh right! My only regret is that at the time I didn't have all the PA details and hadn't yet found her love letters. I would have LOVED to ask her the following questions. What the heck was the meaning of the "bunny and strawberry" cards? And what's it like screwing and giving BJs to a married man? I know, I'm sick. But those questions would have blown her out of the water. I guess I can now only imagine how much fun that would have been. Oh, there was one more thing I would have said. If she messes with me her parents will receive copies of her letters stating how H gave her "shivers", all while my dad was dying in the hospital. I'm sure her parents would have been so proud! CV

CV

My mother just recently figured out that she knows OW parents. The connection took a while to hit her. She said they must be real proud of her, as they are very religious and upstanding people in their community. She was shocked to find out it was their daughter. I would love to talk to her parents sometime, honestly. Right after I talk to her.

HINY

NY, a part of me would really like to talk to OW again. I admit for very vindictive reasons. H says she's smart, but compared to me there ain't no comparison. She actually was pretty stupid. H's shrink told him OW's biggest mistake was she should have settled for the brass ring instead of going after the brass monkey. H was setting her up with a great career before the A started. A very stupid girl!

Anyway, it really does annoy me that I didn't have ALL the details of the PA before we had our little talk. She only knows what H told me, which was a doozy. He tried to F*** her but wasn't able. No wonder when I told her that she got all flustered, said, "I don't know what he's talking about," said she needed to go to the bathroom because she had a stomach ache, and then took what I think were anti-anxiety meds.

What a tangled web these WSs and OPs weave. I wonder if your H's OW's parents know about the activities of their dear daughter. H's OW's parents are supposed to be nice people. So, unless H starts screwing up, I have no reason to out her. Oh darn! I guess I need to just settle with the thought that her plans to have H dump me were thwarted. I am very glad you get to see this A unravel. I'm not saying I would have liked Plan B, but I would have enjoyed H being faced with the reality of an R with OW. CV

Hi CV

Well when I first found out about A and we were in our false recovery I called OW. She was dumb enough to talk to me. I asked her if her parents knew considering that they both work where her and WH work. She said yes, I said they must be very proud of you. That is really all I know about her parents knowing, other than WH knows them, so I am sure they do. Who knows with all the lying through the whole thing.

HINY

You crazy controlable women ,, thank goodness you didn't confuse the break with the gas and run her over by accedent of course LOL

also if you where having a bad hair day ya should have went in for alitlte trim <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Maybe got on your cell while there and called Wh and thank him again for that afternoon FIX last week LOL <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

Sorry I told ya I can't resist a good old laugh , especailly when its about a OW .

Hope the week end was good any way ,,

HOWS the DARK going ?

Hey 3,

I thought about all that stuff. I have no control, it took everything I had not to go in and get a trim believe me. If I were alone I would have.

I was going to say something about that little fix he came for last week actually. She told me that she heard that our sex life wasn't all that great on the phone. I was gonna ask her if it wasn't so great why did he come home for some? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> .

I saw her yesterday leaving the gas station as I was pulling in too. One of these days I am gonna see her and it is all just gonna fly out <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> .

WH called yesterday while we were having our Mothers day bash, I answered the phone he told me his father had emergency surgery while he was down there on a vein in his neck that was blocked. He said Happy mothers day and we said good bye. That was all. Life rolls on. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

HINY

NY, you got to stop your killing me hear a gas sation and you didn't light a cigerette LOL

NOW thats control !!!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

I know this is why GOD did not put me and OW from the same area , cause he knows I look ugly in pin strips <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> that and I HAVE NO NO NO CONTROL !!!!

The forst time I saw OW She got out of her car from across a street and gave me the fingure , I had a foot on the gas and the breack rebbing the car I just wanted to pin her up against the brick building useing her as a buffer for my bumper LOL

Some one was with me and took control of the car !

then I got out in the intersection and stood on the roof of my car while people pulled me down screaming YOU HOME WRECKING CU&^ HE IS A MARRIAED MAN BI*&& " her hole family and freinds where in the street ,,,, I call that exposure !!!

Thats how they all found out he wasn't "SEPARATED " and his W new about what was going on .

Well then me and a bottle of JACK got cozy ! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

3

It is an unfortunate thing that we live in the same area. I hoping that she will move now that he has dumped her. I think that if she see's us together as a family again like she did before she went after my husband she probably would. I read one of the letters that she wrote him, it was like she was trying to brain wash him or something. Saying I know that you said you weren't sure you wanted out of what you are in (our M), but god made our paths cross for a reason. I can tell by the tone in your voice that your wife puts you down and doesn't take care of you like she should <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> .

Oh really now! What made her an expert on voices, I would like to know. This whole thing has been a nightmare. I told him not long ago, you are so stupid when it comes to women, you let her brain wash you. After talking with his Aunt last night I have come to the conclusion that the whole family has cheated. Both of his brothers and his mother, now him. What kind of a family is this I am wondering?

Oh well another day in the dark. I am starting to feel like a mushroom, always in the dark and being fed bullsh**. Typical day as a BS eh.

HINY