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How does one deal with the situation when the OP is single? My WW has told me the OP will "wait for ever for her to decide".The idea of exposure to his wife won't work. He does have to older daughters 19, 20.We are seperated, she says, to find her self and make a decision. I'm in plan A right now with no way of knowing if NC is happening.
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You can let his daughters know, and anyone else concerned - like work, etc.
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Hi Quartz,
That's an interesting question.My WH's homewrecker(HW) is also single,30,no husband(well,she has mine for now <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> ),no kids and basically no responsibilities except being involved with a married man.She also lived with her parents up until several months ago and now rooms with another dysfunctional single woman,a real winner this HW is. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
I am sure she is also waiting in the wings eternally for her married man because that's all she can get and she has her claws deeply embedded,it's her last chance at a life I guess.In the beginning it was a test of wills for me but I am thinking that now the HW can have him.
I would not believe anything your WW says about OM.It is very common for the WS to lie about everything including what they say to OP and what OP says to them.Why won't exposure to the OM's wife help? It should be done anyway.Also to the daughters.Anyone who can influence the "odd couple" to stop their abhorrent behavior is worth telling all to.
You should get a profile too by the way.
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Are you sure he is single? How do you know this?
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P.S. I wouldn't let his daughters know, that will be viewed as harrassment and will not benefit you in any way. I promise you will look the bad guy if you do that. Have you told all of your W's family?
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