Bump! I wanna know, too!

(She did post a couple weeks ago, Pep -- if you missed that, you might want to look a few pages into the history.)

Yes, she did come and report - and it was a very good report too - A+ if I recall.

SS

It's nice to be remembered and wondered about!

All is going very well. It's like we were never apart, although we've learned a lot from being apart. We've been remarried now for 4 1/2 months.
Soon we'll have our 23rd wedding anniversary. (of the first wedding)

I treat my husband in a much better way than I ever did before the affair, separation, and divorce. I used to be critical and demanding. I didn't have a career when my A started. Being apart and having to be alone taught me a lot, and him too.

I still can't believe he came back to me. Seriously, at times I can't believe it as I yearned for him for so long.

He is as kind to me as he ever was, and then some. I can't believe how lovingly he's forgiven me. Never brings it up at all, even when there are triggers of sorts. I don't bring up stuff either, when there's triggers that hit me about his time alone. We've let go of the past and don't talk about it or our time apart much anymore.

The first few months we did talk about the past more, and I was kind of 'obsessed' with wanting to know details of the woman he 'dated' when we were apart. That's ended now, I let go of it. Doesn't matter at all.

Thanks for your help, everyone.

I'm going to post a thread about one person who hasn't been supportive, just to get your take!

And again, don't give up on your marriage---even if you're divorced. It can be rebuilt. Time and patience!

Take care,
H_P