My wife was kissed by a man at a party, we were all drinking. In fact The wife of the guy that kissed here caught them it was just a quick peck she tells me but now the wife of the man that kissed her will not talk to my wife.

Since this time it happened in december my wife has been wearing more sexy clothing and going shopping alone during the day. She has not done this before she is a stay at home mom and says she needs to get out more. She also has wanted me out of the house more I am home very little during the week for my job and cherish winding down when I get home on the weekends.

Any help would be appreciated!

Does your W buy anything when out on these shopping trip's?

It sounds a lot like she has some things to hide. I am also a stay at home mom, who used to use "getting out" more as an excuse. Taking care of herself more, the sexy clothes, etc., those are all subtle signs. Offer to go shopping with her next time and see if she gives an excuse for you not to come along.

Do your own private investigation of her. That is what I did. Found proof of affair within a week. She wasn't to thrilled about that. Follow her, check her emails, star 69 your phone, etc. You have to find out or it will drive you nuts!

It may be nothing, but check it out. My W started to pay more attention to her appearance and I didn't suspect anything for a couple of months. She is stay at home mom. Then I checked the cell-phone records and found 3-4 calls a day. Don't rush into anything, since the peck on the cheek may have been all she needed to break out of something. But take your time and check.

Definitely check into it and do a lot of snooping!

Has she always paid attention to here appearence?
You ought to follow her one day or say; "You know what? I am going that way let me drop you off"?

I know you are a man, but women have great intuition and I think if you are suspecting it then you know something is not right. That is the feeling us women get! Go with it! Why else would that mans wife be so angry unless she is the incredibly jealous type? I had strange women come up to my husband and kiss him at bars. It happened twice. And on Halloween at our local bar, a women decided to sit on his lap. Infront of me. This is when we were engage and first got married.I will tell you on incident. We were dancing and this women started in. I didn't think about it because the floor was so crowded that there was no room. She started talking to him, we had our friends with us too. Next thing I new she planted one. I laughed. At the time I was secure and thought nothing would ever happen. But I never made a big stink about it. The look on his face was priceless. But of course I took over! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> And she was pretty upset! But my point is I didn't get upset because really he didn't bring it on and he didn't feed into it. But really is listen to your gut and do some major snooping. And go to the book store and read the book Suriving and Affair. Why? Because if she is.. you need to be prepared!

I will be praying that it was an innocent peck and nothing of it!

Good luck to you. Snoop away my friend!
Ali

I wouldn't say anything unless you have evidence. I would suggest putting a hidden tap on your phone and recording her conversations. If she uses a computer you can install spyware. Your quiet investigation might just turn up nothing so you can eliminate the possibility of an affair and focus on something else.

Thanks I have usually never been the jealous type and I hate it! I love her so much and cant bear the thought of her with another.

I just have this grinding feeling in my gut something is wrong and I dont know what.

Hubby -

Go with your gut here. You wouldn't be feeling this way if you weren't seeing signs. I'd say you are seeing more then you have posted here.

Spyware and tapping the phone would be a good way to find out now. Maybe you can head this off at the pass.

Good luck.