I am trying my best not to just go with my heart. I am being very logical and rational at the moment. I have to be, because I have exams to concentrate on.

The wedding is off for the time being. Be sure that I will not marry him until I have 100% confidence in him. I may stay with him, but I will be cautious about that step.

I think I need more information on what happened before I can make any further decisions.

Thank you all. I do appreciate your support, and I am trying my best to digest all of it and use it to help my thought processes.

Good for you KS2001, <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> You take your sweet time, belive me it will be worhh the wait(better cancel all the fixens before the groom run out with the best man) This actually happened to my brother his M lasted 1 month she was really into the best man and was tosing dishes at hime after 30 days (he was able to get an anulment thanks God) Just thought ide bump this one up where we can see it better.

Marriage is for mature people, and I learn something new every day.

FCalunga

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by ks2001:
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I have 2 weeks to decide what I am going to do. We have talked and planned to be good to each other, and then I will see what signs of hope I have.

</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Only you can decide if you want to give it a try. My only advice is to consider how long 2 weeks really is. Think how fast your schooling has gone by, think how fast the past 4 years have gone by with your BF.

Anyone can behave for 2 weeks. I strongly suggest you postpone the wedding for 1 year. During that year take time to really get to know your BF. If you think a year is too long to wait I suggest you look back at how fast your high school years went by and how fast your college years are going by.

April

bumping this up.. how are you K? I've missed you.. please tell me how you are doing and exams.. stuff like that.

big hugs**

Hi Harudah,
I went away friday to cornwall and now im back.
I went on my own to get some distance.

Im ok, things are looking good.

xxx

Great, sometimes we need to do our own thing. It can be difficult and we might be just stuck taking care of others all the time. I feel like I take care more than I am taken cared of. Oh well...... my tummy pains has been back, more visits to the docs.. I'm taking care of me.... good care of me.............WH is drooling over me care of me hehe
Yeah I'm silly like that... big hugs hun.

I know we came hard on you the other days, but whatever decision you make, only you know what's best for you my dearest...
lots of love

Tam Tam