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#1139290 05/24/04 08:42 AM
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Last week my WH was wonderful. He came home early every night was so into me. Made me see the man I fell in love with. The man I haven't seen in about a year and 4 months. Friday came and he didn't get home to late. I know he broke down and called her. This weekend he was back to closing me out. It made me sad because I was so happy but now I am back to be depressed. Is it normal for a WH to go from being so happy with you one day then the next shutting you out again? The way he was acting made me have so much hope. But now I am back to wondering.

#1139291 05/24/04 01:30 PM
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Yes I guess there will be those. I just hope I get my husband back soon. Instead of this distant alien.

#1139292 05/24/04 01:39 PM
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SML,
Keep hanging in there. It seems like a normal pattern. The indecision and the waffling sucks and really tries your resolve. Please try to be patient, I know it is hard to do because you want this to be over. It will take time, but after the waffling, up to 6 months after dday, he will choose to end it. It takes alot of energy to conain the conflict and the A will end. It takes time and patience. Once contact is broken, you will see your H again. Keep doing the plan A stuff and wait. You can't change his behavior, but you can influence him with your love.

Christ's Love,
Roman121


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