Another post just reminded me of something. While I always had a look all you want, but don't taste attitude, my WW was very jealous. She would get visibly aggitated at the the thought of an OW in my life, and threaten me with bodily harm if I was even to think about it. Even after moving in with and accepting a proposal from OM, WW occasionally quizzes me about where I've been and with who, again becoming agitated if she thinks I may have been with another woman.

What-huh?

In light of the A, this attitude doesn't make sense to me both before and after the A.

First is it Mister Cellophane? Like I can see right thru you walk on by you.

Second my WH was never jealous before but is always curious now about where I am going or who I will be with. I have always wanted to tell him I am out with old boyfriends but haven't since I am in plan A.

We can not make sense out of those who are senseless.

yep, that's the one, turned out I was just meal ticket <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

it was cellophane or SpermdonorMealticketBabysitterman (SMB for short) <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Funny huh...when the WS is in an A?

My H was always the same way. Had two A's (that I caught) while we've been married. Throughout our entire M, H was always jealous, always telling me that he felt that "someone was going to steal me away from him". I guess since he was having A's, and it was easy for him to get away with for a time, he figured I was doing the same.

Kinda makes me sick! It's like, hey, don't bring me down to your loser lifestyle!

Take care.

sss

Yes, same thing here. WH was always very jealous of me. One time when we worked together he threw this huge fit when we got home one night because he walked by me and I didn't look at him, said I was ignoring him. When I look back it is kind of funny now. He also doesnt want me to date/or is afraid I will. The other day my son said something about a new kid at daycare and WH said what is his name and my son said gage and I said no his name is Quincy, and he started on with who is gage?, huh who is gage?, he even asked my son like three times. Truthfully gage is a little boy that I always tell DS a story about getting his finger caught in his mothers treadmill and had to have a skin graft to fix it, I was trying to explain in a kid way how unsafe it is to stick your finger in it while it is running. And since I have now become a single parent, running the treadmill while I am here alone with him is the only way I can get exercise or I wouldn't. Funny though, how it is okay for them but not for the BS.

HINY

I think that there is a suspicious mind in the one whom has committed the acts which they are worrying that "think" that you will be tempted to commit. Why is it that former(the more brilliant ones) criminals are hired sometimes to help with crimes? They think that way, the way in which you can catch a criminal which acts as they "used" to act.

Also, I have a question. Why is it that the OW or OM will find their way near you at a party or just at any social plane where they can get close to you and your WS? I read this over and over in the minute details of BS complaints. It doesn't seem to get the forefront attention. I do think that it is an important topic. Have you witnessed it yourselves?