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I have finally come to terms with WHY I am so upset. It's not the fact that he did this, it's because he will not take accountability for his actions, and deal with the consequenses. I read a post recently about accountability and consequences, but now I can't seem to find the post I was previously reading, and would like a little more insight. Could it be that I may be more forgiving if he would just take accountability for his actions?
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ladyinlove,
He will do it again given an opportunity ... you are putting yourself in a bad situation.
Best predictor of future behavior is past behavior.
-rh-
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Any suggestions on what would be the best way to ask him to take accountability for his actions?
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