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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I haven't seen OW since the A ended. And, I don't want to even take the chance on a relapse. I quit my job, and then went back to OW after about 4 weeks. About 1 year after I left my job, I realized that I was an OM and finally started coming out of the fog.
You wouldn't believe how 'in the fog' I was. I still cannot believe to this day how wrapped up in her I got. It was ridiculous.
I couldn't have recovered if I would have been around here. I'm convinced thatI would still be sleeping with her if not for NC. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">This is a TJ, originally this quote was posted by Jimmy Mac.
I just wanted to know if you (anyone) thinks it is fair that the BS will never have someone to feel this passionate about them?
Now I know that recovery isn’t about being “fair” and am not saying that BS’s need to go out and have revenge affairs so that they can feel what their WS’s felt.
Maybe I just want to know if any of you will regret not having this kind of passion for someone (or do you feel this for someone?)
I don’t know if that made sense (it’s very late).
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Yup been their, <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> Not fair but need to work on M, <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> Its my only hope of even getting close to "What was". <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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Didn't WS have this kind of passion for us at one time too? Or is it that in order to be real you must have an A, & that is real passion and what you felt for BS never was?
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by JustWondering:
<strong> [QUOTE] I just wanted to know if you (anyone) thinks it is fair that the BS will never have someone to feel this passionate about them?</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Not my experience. My FWH truly is this passionate about me now.
Sad thing is, except for occassional days, I can't match that passion. Maybe one day....
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