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#1140432 05/27/04 08:26 AM
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My wife of 19 years had a "A" 3 years ago. Even after I discovered lots of direct lies. Still not sure how truthful she is about the whole mess. I made a decision to stay with her for our children. She is trying very hard. Here is my question. Things changed for me after her "A".
I find it very hard to meet her needs. After 3 years I still get very mad at what she did to me and our marriage. Does it get better w/ time. Do I stay in this relationship feeling this way?

#1140433 05/27/04 08:46 AM
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What would it take for you to forgive your wife? What does forgiveness look like to you?

Your wife made a mistake....you say she has been trying very hard, and that you made a decision to stay. Sound like you decided to stay but refuse to work on your marriage. How come dat?


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