In you bio, you stated WH married OW. Are they really happy?? Is it working? I know my WH and OW have discussed it. I put conflict in his head when I gave him the statistics of 3% in favor of it lasting. I just know that he sees her as more suitable for him. He tells me there is just a lot of other stuff in the way.(Our DD and OW son)
I hope you are moving on and finding happiness for yourself. I know you deserve better than what you have got so far in life.