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Looking for Durham
#1141867 05/31/04 03:35 PM
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Anyone know where Durham has been? I have been thinking about her and hope everything is ok.
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I was out of town for Memorial Day weekend. Just returned. It was nice but I did think of my H quite a bit. It has been almost 5 weeks with NC. It is hard to be alone especially during my pregnancy. I am sooo looking forard to the birth of my child as I know that will help me heal.
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#1141869 05/31/04 05:19 PM
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when is the baby due? Remember enjoy every minute of the pregnancy. It was one of my best memories, even though like you I had an [censored] of a H that wasn't around much to share it with
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I am due August 20. The hardest part is doing everything on my own. I have great friends and family but really need a H. I start prenatal classes in three weeks which will be with a friend. I know that will be really hard. I am also interviewing child care people this week. I know I will get through it even if it will be a struggle. There has to be a light at the end of the tunnel.
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Durham - What has your H been like when it comes to the baby? My WH who moved out last week plans to take two weeks off when the baby is born (Dec. 16) and is talking to his employer about taking 12 weeks off after I take my 12 weeks off. I'm not sure what his plan is, I don't think he does either. If we are still seperated (I want to believe we'll be back together before then) does he think that he would stay here when I bring the baby home?
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Kloe,

I am in plan B as my H continues to see OW. I have not seen him or spoke to him in 5 weeks. I wasn't showing much when he left but have since popped out quite a bit. He would not recognize me. Before he left he wanted to attend appts. and prenatal classes but I don't think that is an option while he keeps up his life with the OW. No thanks. He emails me questions about how the baby is doing ect. but I don't respond. His mother asks me also so I think he gets some info. from her. I know it bugs him which is nice.

Is your H still having an A?
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#1141873 06/02/04 09:07 AM
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Durham,

My eldest will be 15 August 28th so I know what it's like to be huge during the hot summer months! If you can swim, I highly recommend it. Cool, soothing, a chance to stretch out and work your muscles - and NO STRAIN on that tired back! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

When I was pregnant, my then-H was in the Air Force so couldn't go to all the prenatal classes with me. A close girlfriend went, and although it was odd being two women in the prenatal classes, it was also a lot of fun. We kept getting the giggles and disrupting the class <img border="0" title="" alt="[Embarrassed]" src="images/icons/blush.gif" />
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Durham - I truly don't believe he is sleeping with her, but they do work together so I know he sees her at work. I know they were in the same meeting yesterday because he mentioned her name. I don't know if he is talking to her. He is living with him Mom so I at least know he is not seeing her there. Plus his family is giving him a hard time for leaving me while I am pregnant. Some of his family knows about the A but not all of them.

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