My H admitted ea to me 4 weeks ago. After the birth of our baby I found out that he never quit having contact with her. In fact found out that they have been text messageing each other on how much they "love" each other. etc. H has been home every night and spending quality time with me and kids since our baby was born.

He says that it is me he wants to be with and he is "trying" not to have contact with ow. He says that she is stil calling him (apparently not in the past couple of days). Our last conversation he stated that she started asking for more of his time and was getting frustrated that he was still coming home to me. He told her that he couldn't give her the time she wanted and he didn't know if he would ever be able to.

It is encouraging that my h is more affectiate with me and spending more time at home. However I can't help but feel like he is still talking to her on the phone. That he is still calling her. I don't believe that it is as often as it was before... but I don't believe that he has completely cut ties. She is hanging on as tight as she can.

I've been in pa since I found out about a. It took two weeks for h to respond. I'm still pa. but I'm getting frustrated on how long I can pa without knowing for sure that all contact has stopped.