I just got cell phone bill and even though he has been being sweet lately, he has been calling other woman every day. I have not confronted him yet. Other woman is three hours away and pregnant by him. I feel really down now. I so wanted it to work between us because I love him so much. Why does he have to keep calling her? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> I would do anything to make this stop. What can I do? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> Sometimes he called her right after talking to me. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

I couldn't track down your story, what's your back ground? How long has this been going on? What have you done so far? Exposure? Plan A? Plan B? Whatever doing right now, it sounds like time to up the ante.

I would like to know your story also.
how heartbreaking. Im not even sure
what to say-just to keep posting & stay
in touch with those who care.

History in a nutshell. Husband got other woman pregnant. Continued relationship after exposure. She called house a couple times to make sure I knew it was going on. He lied and told me he was going to his Moms. He took other woman to her home town three hours away. I called his Moms and he confessed. Said other woman would not leave him alone so he took her home. We got into a discussion last night. Mostly him talking. He told me all the stuff he did not like about me. We got into needs and he said I was nagging because I asked for more affection. From there I told him how I posted on this board trying to find out what was wrong with our relationship. Then he asked about what I was posting and how people responded, so I told him. He asked about how people responded about the baby and I told him that they said that Him and I should see the baby as a couple. I told him that he should be a man and tell her grow up and accept me for the baby's sake. He told me he tried to talk to other woman about that but that she hates me and does not want me to touch her child. I know I would love her child as my own because my husband wanted a baby and I could not give him one because my tubes were tied. I had suggested adopting a child but he wanted a baby naturally. He also thinks it is OK to go to delivery. I told him to fight for parental rights. He said he can't because he lost his other kids. I told him that she is manipulating him. He agreed. I told him I knew he was calling her almost every day. I said, do not deny it because I got proof in black and white. I told him I had the proof at work. He confessed and told me he was calling her because she relapsed on drugs and he was concerned about the baby and that he is trying to get her to give him the baby if she is going to choose to destroy her life with drugs. He did seem honest. He did get angry with me because I hit home. I left the house and went in the yard for five minutes and came back in and went to bed with him. I think he feels better for being honest and I feel better. What do you think?