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Can you start plan B without any confession of an A?
I don't feel like I can do plan A any longer. I am still not getting to the truth about my H's suspicious behavior.
He has been acting suspiciously since October. I confronted him in February. He denied everything. I found MB about a week later. I have been in plan A since then (3 months). I am tired of being played for a fool. I am starting to fantasize about moving back to my hometown and starting my life over once I'm done with school at the end of July.
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How do you know there is an affair?
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Melody,
That's just it. I don't know for sure that he is having an A, although I have suspicions and some evidence (but not enough). I have been suspecting for a while that my H might be having an A. It began back in October when he became very distant, cold, and mean to me. He was also no longer interested in SF (for 4 months!) I have posted my suspicions and evidence in "Found more evidence - should I confront?"
I have been following plan A for three months now and have been trying to get more (different)evidence, as everyone here has suggested. But I am not having any luck. I am getting tired and I really want to give up.
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svb, I wouldn't do it until you know what is happening. Surely there is a way you can find out. What about hiring a P.I.?
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