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when we were watching tv the other night a woman expressed dismay that her husband went to a bar and while there kissed another woman. Then my husband said he doesn't feel there's anything wrong with a man in a bar leaning over and kissing another woman when he's married. Isn't this just going down a road you shouldn't be going if you say you totally love the one you're married to? By the way he's also looking for "friends" in the internet. But they have to be women because the men might be gay!!!
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Isn't this just going down a road you shouldn't be going if you say you totally love the one you're married to?[/v]
Uh, it's a road you should not be going down for ANY reason if you are married. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />
[b]By the way he's also looking for "friends" in the internet. But they have to be women because the men might be gay!!!But he's a man and the other men "looking for friends" on the internet <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> are thinking the same about him...
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Hi alice, I think anyone with half a brain knows it WRONG to kiss another woman while married! Geeze,give me a break. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> Is there anyhting else going on that you'd like to mention? Do you think your WH is headed for an A? How's the marriage? O
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we've been through marriage builders andthings got better but guess what he's been unemployed for 2 years is bored, lonely, I seem to be doing all the things he feels he needs according to our worksheets but he's hating geting to be 50 and I feel he's a prime candidate for an affair. He used to be a pastor but his values have changed so drastically like the kissing thing. So I know that there's a far deeper issue here than just our marriage. But if he doesn't want to address things but rather just chooses to be mad at God for not getting him a good job and loosing all his friends and just generally blaming the world for all the things that go wrong I realize the marriage can only be so healthy.
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