Hi,
My name is Stephanie and a friend of mine has refered me to come over here because I am having some problems with my hubby.

We have been married since last Feb. and been together for about 2 1/2 years. For about the last month and a half we have been bickering more than usual. It's not that we fight much, but lately we have been. I didn't really think to much of it, but this weekend was horrible. I have been hanging out with a new friend who is single. She made some comments and my H and I have been fighting since. He has a problem with his size and not being able to make me happy in bed. I have never said anything negative about it and he now insists that because he can't satisfy me I will leave him for someone else. He claims that he saw it in me that night my friend and I were hanging out. I have never had sex with anyone else and I don't ever want to. He claims that because I am not as experienced I will want to be with someone else. I've told him that's not true, but he just says that I'm not being honest with myself. I have made lots of suggestions, one being counceling, but he turns everything down for one reason or another. I've told him that I am willing to do anything it takes to make things better between us, but it still doesn't seem to be good enough.

My other concern is that for about the last month or 2 he has been talking about this girl that is related to one of his coworkers. She stops by all the time and now she's calling him. He is inviting her to go out with us to car meets and even to his family BBQs. I may be way off about this, but I just see that he really likes her.

Normaly I wouldn't be here spilling my heart, but he is talking about us not lasting and it seems he has lost all commitment to me. I would really appreciate any help and I'm sorry about the spelling.

-Steph