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I'm just afraid that if I tell him everything that is going on in my mind I will lose him because some of it makes him seem like a horrible person & he really is not!

Please REread what you wrote...

and consider doing this ...

try to approach this issue from your ~strengths~ rather than from your weaknesses.

Whenever we allow our decisions to be directed by what we are afraid of ... it ususally backfires on us.

Try rewriting this sentence using your stronger self.

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"All time low"

May I suggest you speak with your physician...

Perhaps you need help.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I am afraid that if I tell my H what thoughts are in my mind he will think I'm totally crazy </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Well are you crazy? I highly doubt it!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Most of us women have this inner red light that goes off.....thus "craziness" to the WS ~ we are made to think we are CRAZY so they can get away with not tellng the truth.

If your H wants OUT because of this.....you should re-think the strength of your M. and the integrity of your H!!

Blessings & Prayers,
Atruheart <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />


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