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How many times a week would you LIKE sex? How many times a week do you HAVE sex? Are you sexually satisfied?
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Jimmy, is this coincidence or not?
This is being polled on Emotional Needs as we speak.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Jimmy Mac:
<strong> How many times a week would you LIKE sex? How many times a week do you HAVE sex? Are you sexually satisfied? </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Couldn't answer the questions, the answers were too black & white.
How many times a week would I like sex?
- On a good week every day, on a bad week none. Would like more than I'm currently getting, but it has nothing to do with my husband, but with the fact that I'm more aroused during the day and unfortunately I can't get to my husband for nooners. I also find my libido increases the week during and after my period (damn mother nature!). We tend to reserve sex for the weekends. I'm not usually aroused at night unless I didn't work during the day.
How many times a week do we have sex?
- Depends on what's going on in life. On a good week 3-4 times, on a bad week none. We average 1/week or 4/month, but it's usually 2x one week, none for 2 weeks, 3 times the next, etc.
Am I sexually satisfied?
Yes.
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I strongly believe in two things:
Making love to show your partner how much you love them and making love to make up w/your partner if you have had a fight.
So, IMO, one should pretty much always be making love!
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Watch out everyone. KiwiJ is answering sex questions again.
Take cover!!!
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Are we talking good sex or just sex?
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Even bad sex, if you are with someone you like, is good sex.
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Weaver,
We can sure tell who isn't married on the board----------------------> JAG
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<small>[ June 03, 2004, 09:03 PM: Message edited by: cwmac ]</small>
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I would like sex every day, sometimes more than once a day, and was in a marriage, even when we were happy and not in the turmoil of an A, that MAYBE I had SF twice a month.
It is shocking that I did not have an A.
And it makes WH A all that more disrespectful and hurtful.
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Hah!
I am so NOT married. Gee-whiz, I can't even get a relationship off the ground!
But, that said, I think I have always been jealous of married people (and can't understand affairs) b/c in my mind, once you are married (living together) I can't even understand NOT having sex, making love?
I mean, I lived w/someone once and the best thing about it was the intimacy.
Even if I was mad at him for something, I still wanted the intimacy...no need for me to go w/out b/c he's a jerk!
Sorry. I know this sounds, well, a bit much, but there is nothing like being physically close to someone you love.
I would get mad if we did NOT make love b/c he was in a bad mood, tired, whatever.
Note, making love doesn't have to be about penetration...maybe it's just you touching him or vice versa if s/he is too tired...or maybe it's a nice full body massage b/c s/he has had a bad day...it's as much or as little as you BOTH need/want it to be...
Every night should end (or morning should begin) w/touch...
Okay.
It's late, my SO hates me, maybe I'm just hallucinating...
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I know for lots of ladies that when you're in a fight...you don't feel like making love. But here's what I think: Why should I DEPRIVE myself because he's being a haircut? I might not talk to him....but I'll have sex with him. So the MC told him he was the luckiest guy in the world....had a wife who would have sex and won't talk!!! Unlike JAG (show off! LOL <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> ) I'm not "making up"....I'm still mad. I'm just mad and satisfied instead of mad and deprived. The windfall is I get alot more apologies.
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Heeeeey I've just come on the "women" part of this and I SAW THAT CWMAC. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
I've been trying REALLY hard to keep away from sex questions but somehow I just can't help it........
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<img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Kiwi said: </font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> This is being polled </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Boy that brought up an instant mental picture! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" />
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That's horns on animal's heads SDFR. (Isn't it? Being a city girl I wouldn't really know.) Or is there some American significance that this kiwi hasn't heard about.....
He he he.
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Just when I thought it was safe to come out of my fox hole, KiwiJ's making more sex comments. Sheeesh. I'm glad you saw it KiwiJ <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> cwmac
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Jimmy Mac,
Can you post how the Men's stats compare to the Women's?
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I love to make love. My answer would be 6-7 times a week. My H's answer is closer to 4???? Not fair how we W finally catch on to the fact that sex is fun....then H's turn 40!!! God has a great sense of humor... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Blessings, Atruheart
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Star*Fish's comment reminded me of a comedian I saw once who did a stint on angry sex. How every one knows how good make up sex is but people hardly ever have sex when they are IN the fight. He then demonstrated angry sex between a couple in a fight. One of the funniest acts I'ld seen in a while.
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::::::Just when I thought it was safe to come out of my fox hole Hey! target practise time again is it? MY theory is that a raging fight is great for the female libido. It gets the testosterone flowing. I too am like Starfish and do not need to be on friendly terms for sex. Unless you think "do you want sex"? is being friendly!!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> ps Jenny, I'm not coming to NZ after all. The assh*le who helped my H have his A is going to be there and I don't want to spend 4 days in the same hotel as that piece of &^%$! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />
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CWMAC
It just occured to me that you think I'm married -
I'm not....which brings me to another question
Jimmy -
Does sex with yourself count?
You can sure tell I'm not getting any - three posts on the sex poll thread!
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