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7 days a week ,,, 2to 3 times a day ( thats only cause he has to work ands kids around LOL)

Any time of day any way !

Its amazing , relizing what no sex after 2 years does to ya . LOL

NOW H says it doesn't matter much ,, sex is not a big part of M <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

I belive in making love and he11 just sex for the sex of it .

I to don't have to talk or want him to either .

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I get it about three times a week if I initiate since physical affair stopped. I would like about 5 times a week. I want more when sex is good. I am decided not to initiate to see how long it takes husband to initiate. It has been a week and a half. I wonder how long I can hold out. I don't mind initiating but I like him to initiate sometimes so that I feel desired.

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WHEW! all this sex talk!
I enjoy sex more now
that I am in 40s-
all about confidence,
and no hang-ups. I
dont think about how
many times a week-
more about emotions
and what we are up
for-still good after
all these years!

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You are all a bunch of horny woman!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

It doesn't matter how many times I want it, my H wants it 10 times that amount.

Kiwi- good for you for never faking it!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
I haven't in years, I finally showed my H the ropes to climb, the buttons to push, the horn to blow, you get it, right? Well you woman do, but I'm sure some of you men don't. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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(which could be applied to this topic)
So wrong, sorry!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> 7 days a week ,,, 2to 3 times a day ( thats only cause he has to work ands kids around LOL) </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Wow! Where were you when I was single....had a strong back....strong heart....strong...never mind! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

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I just thought I'd say I voted, 3x a week would be good, but I'm gettin' it zero times a week now as I'm single so therefore of course I'm not satisfied!

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I could have sex every day!!!
We currently have sex three to four times a week, although ocassionally just two days.
NO.. I am not satisfied.. my husband does "last" very long and often doesnt want to take the time to please me in other ways. :-(

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<small>[ November 07, 2004, 09:01 AM: Message edited by: cipher ]</small>

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Okay, tell me this makes sense. H didn't like the fact that he initiated sex pre-A & wanted me to be more agressive in the bedroom. Now, 8 months past DD, I'm initiating & being aggressive & H too tired from work?!! What the heck?!!! He needs to make up his mind! LOL

We both work different shifts-Me, first, him, 2nd so when he wants it I'm not available & when I want it he's not available! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

But whenever it is, it's definitely not enough for me!!! Tell me, can a man be in a slump at only 32?!!!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

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Could one of you ladies who voted post the results of the poll?

Thanks,

Jimmy Mac

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Poll Results: WOMEN: How many times a week? (36 votes.)
How many days a week would you like to have sex?
Choose 1
0 3% (1)
1 3% (1)
2 19% (7)
3 25% (9)
4 17% (6)
5 17% (6)
6 3% (1)
7 14% (5)
How many days a week on average do you have sex?
Choose 1
0 25% (9)
1 25% (9)
2 17% (6)
3 22% (8)
4 3% (1)
5 3% (1)
6 3% (1)
7 3% (1)
Are you sexually satisfied?
Choose 1
Yes 47% (17)
No 53% (19)

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OFF topic and well on topic

I want to know that answer about men in there 30"S do they slow down ?

And if so then why the A ?

Thats one H just don't anwer honestly I know it .

I ask him ,,, YOu had sex with the A and from what I know from OW very often so why not NOW ???

I would think its me ,, BUT NA LOL

I am ready willing able ,, anything goes ,,, Up down all around HHHMMMM I don;t get it.

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3: I am in the same boat. I wanted it 7 days a week, if not more. Any time, place, way, why, how, whatever. And he was always tired, stressed, not feeling well, blah blah blah. WH is only 31.

Then, he starts A, and got plenty of action with OW. And I know we are not supposed to compare...but, I mean, come on....there is not much of a comparison between the two of us.

And did I mention, 7 days a week, two three times a day???? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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Ok being a male over 30 I know I would like sex 7 time's a week. Of course this could be because of lack of anything in a long time but I don't think so. Maybe I'm an odd duck or something. Yes I am just rambleing someone stop me.

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">And did I mention, 7 days a week, two three times a day????</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Dipi! I'm scandalized.... er, not really <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Lot's of people say that, but do they really want it? I experienced this for 6 months. I was exhausted! The only motivation to keep up the pace in the last month was simply that I wouldn't have the opportunity at any other time in my life.

Any one else?

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> Ok being a male over 30 I know I would like sex 7 time's a week. Of course this could be because of lack of anything in a long time but I don't think so. Maybe I'm an odd duck or something. Yes I am just rambleing someone stop me.
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Tinman, when my H & I were separated, towards the end of the separation we filled out EN questionnaires & my H's SF need was about 10 times a day! But, after he moved home, now it has diminished. It very well could be because of lack of anything in a long time. But then again, you could just be one of those men that no matter how many times, it's never enough! LOL

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