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How many days a week do you WANT sex? How many times a week do you HAVE sex? Are you sexually satisfied?

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Jimmy - You mean how many times a day, right?

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I too, assumed you meant per day.

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Sex?

Oh, yes please. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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Hmmmph. That's not fair. I'm not a guy so I can't vote. I can't vote so I can't view the results.

OK, so what do the results say?

Inquiring minds want to know!!!

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Snow - you can "fake" it!

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JM:

"How many days a week do you WANT sex? How many times a week do you HAVE sex? Are you sexually satisfied?"

Good poll!

Flawed, though. I note that "50 days a week" was not an option, or "How many times a day?" wasn't one of the 2uestions...

And 2uestion number 2 has no clause for "flying solo" <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

-ol' 2long (going blind)

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by worthatry:
<strong> Snow - you can "fake" it! </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">We already do "fake it!" Now, tell us the results, WAT!!!

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Results. Well hold onto your seats ladies, 'cause this is going to amaze and stun you...

Apparently...

Guys are not having quite as much sex as they would like.

Unbelievable.

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I'm with WAT. I thought there should be a line for the number of times a day.

BTW, I answered "no" to the satisfied question. Not because of the frequency but bc W won't try anything new. Nada. Zip. Rien. (and yes I've been honest and we've discussed it)

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I am a female who thinks a couple should have sex whenever they are together...i.e., if you are single and seeing one another, if you are not intimate, something, in my mind is not right. But I view sex as sharing and closeness, so maybe I am a nut.

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Fascinating. Insightful. You mean men actually WANT sex????

I tried to have sex with my H every single night of our happy and no so happy marriage. I used to call him "Peter".....because I was "denied 3 times" (blasphemous (sp) I know...but come on).

And no, I am not hideous, with three heads, or with some sort of foul order wafting off of me.

Refreshing to know these facts, really, for me. If my M ends, maybe I will find one of you men who, according to this poll, was not sexually fulfilled. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

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You know I never thought this would happen but,

Before I turned 45 I wanted sex all the time, at least once a day. I thought that if there were no sex in heaven it couldn't be that great. Except for the 2 weeks my wife was on leave I haven't had sex for over a year. No sex does not seem to bother me much. It is the affection and closeness I miss so much. Having someone to share your life with seems so much more important to me now.

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As of 11:00 PM,
35% want sex 3 days a week;
22% want sex 4 days a week;
35% want sex 7 days a week.

SO: 90% of the men want sex more than 3 times a week.


35% have sex 0 times a week;
30% have sex 1 time per week;
9% have sex 2 times per week;
17% have sex 3 times per week.


74% of the men say they are sexually unsatisfied.

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Interesting poll. Very frustrating too. I'm wanting it more now and WH is telling me he has lost interest.
BUT we have already made love more since the A came to daylight then we did all of last year.
So something is improving (and he says he has lost interest??)
Still I would like it more.

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Hey...
Fun fact FYI... If men really know their stuff, then they know that a woman can't really 'fake it' (at least an orgasm that is)! Why??? Because it has nothing to do with the increasing intesity and sound level of moans & groans. Did you know that the clitoris becomes swolen and kind of 'hard' when a woman has her orgasm!??? Yup!!! That's right! the cat's out of the bag!

Thought I'd have some fun here...

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You guys are soooooo funny with your how many times a day stuff <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Funnily enough, I asked H about that the other night and he said if men had sex as often as they wanted there wouldn't be time to work, eat etc. I said "So if you were honest you'd say you wanted it twice a day". And he said "try, 5 times." And my H is 55 years old. So much for a quiet old age round our place. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

It was also quite funny last night. H is a bookdealer and had a car full of art books that he'd bought that day. He was watching a movie on TV and I was sitting quietly reading "The Erotic Art of Japan." which he'd brought in from the car to "show me". I said to him "You watch your movie, I'm going to take this upstairs." I hadn't even got my shoes off and he was up in the bedroom with me. LOL

Jenny

PS I've just read the post from Odyssey. Sorry, but "that" happens during arousal not just at orgasm. As far as I know....from personal experience you understand.... I'm proud to say I've never faked an o in my life.

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I still love the line a good male friend of mine said to his wife when him and her and me and my wife saw the movie Titanic.....

He said something along the line if they went down with the Titanic they would drown in the back seat of the car with the fogged up window! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Apparently some of us guys not only live for sex but die for it as well! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

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sdfr:

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OOPS. had 2 remove that, because I wrote it and was able 2 find myself on the internet with it!
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

-ol' 2long

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On another note, it appears the cicadas have worn themselves out over the past couple of weeks of non-stop sex in the tree tops. 'Course this bunch waited 17 years. Funny thing - only the males sing. Sounded like a happy chorus to me! Don't know for sure if they sang afterwards.

WAT

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