Just wondering if anyone has participated in counseling sessions with Steve Harley, as well as using a coach from Divorce Busting.

What are the differences? Is one better with certain situations than the other?

(and yes, I realize I am at marriagebuilders, so I'm likely to get more support for Steve...)

well i have had the divorce busting coaching/counseling but i have had several sessions w/SH and my H has talked to him twice. i guess i don't know what perspective you are looking for. are you wanting to know from a perspective that only one spouse is involved w/counseling, and whether you only want to know what it's like from someone who has done SH AND divorce busting.

i think there are a lot of people here that don't counsel w/SH and i don't think you'll get a biased opinion. a lot of people can't afford counseling w/MB, i know i'm just about to run out of reserves when it comes to that. but anyway, I'm the BS and want my M. my H the WS, does not want the M. so given that back ground you can read about my sessions w/SH, if you'd like. i've been pretty diligent in posting how each session goes and what SH advises. i'll bump that post up for you. I also think that you will find people say that if what you are doing isn't working then time to try something else and sometimes that includes divorce busting plans, etc.

prayers and God Bless, RR